I have a toddler that runs around the backyard and loves to pick off the berries from the trees and bushes. I have been unable to identify this one but would like to so that I can know if it is toxic. It is very tall, taller than our house and is probably really a bush rather than a tree because it doesn't have one big trunk but several smaller trunks. It does usually produce flowers in the summertime but I can't remember the color. I do know the hummingbirds love them. Right now the berries are red and aren't hard like Holly berries. My toddler can easily squish them. Maybe I didn't notice in the summer but I don't seem to remember that it had berries before. I know this might not be enough information and thank you for the help!